*Wants forgiveness from his wife
*Another mother ran away with daughter’s husband
John Ulaha, 45-year-old Nigerian carpenter, has reportedly impregnated his own mother in-law. Ulaha, a native of Awe Local Government Area of Nasarawa State, is currently living in regrets following his shameful act.
It was gathered that his wife, Victoria, blessed with a daughter, lives in Lafia where she manages a provision store while her husband runs a carpentry workshop in the same town. But by way of augmenting their incomes, they are heavily involved in farming activities in Awe, where they hire labourers to work on their farms.
However, things fell apart after the implementation of anti-grazing law in Benue State pushed over 85% of Fulani herdsmen from Benue to settle in Awe, as they started destroying, at an alarming rate, farmlands belonging to other people.
This situation made Victoria to invite her mother who is a widow to come over and help her husband harvest their farm produce of yam and guinea corn since she was very busy with her shop business in Lafia.
In the course of time, sometime in mid-September 2017, John and his mother-in-law, Mrs. Ashetu Igbasue, 42, relocated to Awe in order to fast-track their harvesting.
Amazingly, three months after, Victoria, was shocked to know that her mother was heavily pregnant. The saddest part is that the pregnancy is for her husband!
“I’m distressed, I don’t know how to handle this matter,” Victoria was reported to have responded.
“I got married to my husband nine years ago. The marriage is blessed with a baby girl and my mother used to come around to spend some time with us especially when she lost her husband.
“But this time around, I personally requested that she should come and help us do some work on the farm. Since then she had been in the village with my husband helping on the farm. Though, both of them used to come to Lafia regularly to pick supplies and go back because they were determined to evacuate all crops from the farm to the house before herdsmen could come to destroy them.
“There was a time my husband came to Lafia to get some cooking ingredients and I asked him whether they were feeding well. He told me light heartedly that my mother’s cooking was more delicious than mine. I did not suspect anything bad. I believed my husband. And, moreover, the woman in question is my mother, not a rival.”
“The last time my mother came to Lafia from my husband’s village, she shockingly told me that she did not see her period for the first and second month running which implies that she is pregnant and said that my husband is responsible for it. She said she wants it aborted because it would be a shameful thing for her to be pregnant at her age when her husband is not alive.
“I invited her to come and assist me to take care of our farm work since Fulani people have been destroying it, but I did not know that my husband had established a love relationship with her. She confessed to me that my husband was responsible for her pregnancy,” she said.
Expressing her disappointment at her husband’s behaviour, Victoria remarked: “It would have been better for him to get a second wife who will be stationed at home or even look for a girlfriend to satisfy him in my absence rather than going into a love affair with my own mother; it is a very shameful thing and an abomination of the highest order; it is wrong.”
The mother-in-law, Mrs. Igbasue, on her part said that it all started in the farm during a joke which led to sex later in the night when they returned from the farm.
“I agreed to his demand for sex and thought it was just to satisfy his sexual feelings, but somehow, it became a daily thing,” she confessed.
“I never thought I could get pregnant due to my age. I told my daughter the truth so that we can get a solution to it and out of anger she went public with it. I have since regretted my action. My intention is to find a way and abort it. My daughter earlier agreed to look for somebody to abort it for me because I can’t keep it. The whole thing was temptation and I completely regret it. I have pleaded for forgiveness from her,” she added.
John on his part admitted that he has deeply offended God as well as his wife for going too far by sleeping with his mother-in-law to extent of getting her pregnant, adding that the pregnancy won’t stand as he will do his best by pleading with his wife to accept aborting it.
“I have regretted what happened. It is not in my character and the shame this very act has brought to me, my wife and the entire village as well as those who know me is unbearable,” he lamented.
“Since my wife leaked this out, I have not been comfortable and have lost appetite for food. I have been pleading with her to forgive me because it is the devil’s work,” he said.
Mother ran away with her son-in-law: If this Nigerian case is alarming, here is another in Zimbabwe where a mother eloped with the husband of her daughter!
The married man is regretting the kind of wife he married after she eloped with their son-in-law, their daughter’s husband, leaving family members in serious shock.
There was drama in the area as news broke that a mother actually snatched her daughter’s husband after having sex with the young man.
The shocking incident which happened in Zimbabwe has become a hot news in the community as the woman’s husband is now living in regrets.
According to ZimNews, 56yrs old Miriam left her husband Simon whom she has 7 children with, to stay with her new lover 34years old Mapako who was once her son-in-law.
Mapako also left his 24years old wife Gracious and two children behind to be with his mother-in-law.
It was gathered that the two were secretly having an affair before finally deciding to run away.
“He and his mother-in-law were close since long back. All along we thought it was just a harmless relationship, not knowing it was more than that,” said a family member.
Reacting, the woman’s husband said: “My wife has embarrassed me and the whole family. The whole village is talking about her and she seems not to care. She left me with the children and the youngest is 10 years old and still needs her mother’s care… l did not think she would end like this.”